It's not always fair.

I've been taking care of my grandfather for two years and, in general terms, it was okay. However, a year ago he moved in with me, and my space and privacy became extremely limited. To be honest, I feel very uncomfortable, but what weighs on me the most is that if I leave, he will end up in the care of my parents (two people who have always supported us all and deserve to rest and live in peace).

I have two aunts/uncles who are total deadbeats: his daughter, who does nothing for him, never will, and is just waiting for him to die to keep his properties; and my other uncle, a former addict who is supposedly "recovering," but all he does is ask for money. In the rehab center where he stays, they give him food and a bed, but they don't cover his personal supplies, and instead of getting a job, he’s just sitting there "recovering"—basically freeloading!

In the end, I'm backing out of this situation, but my parents, because of their good hearts, will unfairly keep sacrificing their time and quality of life for an 88-year-old man.